Blog

Mother helping her son put on his backpack as part of a new school routine
blog tag image
Montgomery Child Care Association
Back

Tips for Helping Your Kids Transition to a New School Routine

Helping children adjust to a new school routine can make the transition from summer days to school days feel much easier. Earlier mornings, new schedules, homework, activities, and less free time can take some getting used to, especially during the first few weeks of school.

The good news is that families do not need to create a complicated schedule. A few simple habits, some preparation, and plenty of patience can help children settle into their new school routine and feel more comfortable with what each day brings.

What Can I Do to Create a New School Routine?

If your child had a big change in their schedule over the summer. You may want to start slowly creating their new school routine.

The goal is not to make every day identical. It is simply to give your child an idea of what their school days will look like. Try doing these tasks a few days before school or during the first week.

  • Wake your child up at what time they would need to wake up for school
  • Have breakfast at the same time each morning
  • Have them get dressed before playing
  • Pack their backpack
  • Use a checklist to help them in the morning
  • Start putting them to bed at an earlier time
  • Have them read/do homework/play with quiet games

Create a challenge for your child. Have a list of what they need to do before leaving the house:

  1. Get Dressed
  2. Have Breakfast
  3. Brush Teeth
  4. Put On Shoes
  5. Grab Backpack
  6. Walk to the Door

You can have your children practice their school routine for kids. Have them check off each task on their list. For younger children you can let them use a marker to check off their list or have them clip a clothes pin on a picture. Older children can come up with their own list and see how many they can remember without being reminded.

Girl packing her school backpack at her desk to get ready for the next school day

What Can I Do to Make Mornings Easier for My Child?

Here are a few school routine tips that you can do the night before your child goes to bed.

Have your child:

  • Pick out their clothes for the next day
  • Pack their backpack
  • Put their shoes by the door
  • Have any materials that they need for an activity ready
  • Allow them to help make lunch/snacks if needed
  • Let them know what they have the next day

You can always do this as a “Ready for Tomorrow” tip. It only takes about 10 minutes.

Have fun with your younger children by saying “Can we get everything ready before this song is over?” Or “Let’s see if you can pack your bag in 20 seconds.”

What Can I Do If My Child Does Not Like Having an Early Bedtime?

With the change of having to wake up for school. Your child will have to go to bed at an earlier time than they were used to over the summer. It may take your child a bit of time to adjust to going to bed earlier. Try to move your child to bed earlier if you can.

Some tips for having a bedtime routine:

  • No screens/active toys
  • Take a bath/shower
  • Change into Pajamas
  • Brush Teeth
  • Read
  • Tell them what they have for the next day
  • Lights out at the same time

Try to have a relaxing bedtime routine for your child. Don’t add too many activities to their night.

To learn more, visit: Bedtime Storytelling Ideas for Preschoolers: Creating a Calm Night Routine.

Mother and daughter reading a book in bed as part of a calm bedtime routine

What if My Child Doesn’t Like Their New School Routine?

Your child may not like their new school routine right away. They may be happy all summer long, and when school starts, they don’t want to do any of these tasks. Try not to make your child do everything on their list. You can always do these things to help ease your child into their new school routine.

  • Allow your child to have a little more time to get ready
  • Keep your child’s nights light the first couple weeks
  • Don’t over schedule your child with activities after school
  • Provide a snack and relaxation time after school
  • Allow your child time to learn their new school routine.

Each child in Silver Spring will have a different schedule. Whether it be school, activities, or getting to school. They may have different schedules and need help learning their new school routine.

What About Having Your Kids Do Things After School?

Your child may want to do some activities after school. Here are a few tips to help your child learn what to do after school.

Have a routine so they know what to expect after school. You can change the order of your list based on your family’s needs. Some children like to play before they sit down to do something quiet. Other children may like to do homework first.

Allow your child to choose what they want to do first. “Would you like to have your snack or change your clothes first?”

Here are a few tips for Balancing Homework, Activities, and Free Time for Kids.

What if Your Child’s School Routine Fails?

It may not go perfectly, and that’s okay. Some days your child will not find a shoe or leave their homework at home. Try to keep your school routine as easy as possible so your child can learn from their mistakes.

For families in Silver Spring, school schedules and daily routines can look very different depending on a child’s age, school, activities, and transportation. The best routine is one that fits your family and can realistically be followed on most days.

For more ideas about helping children become comfortable with daily responsibilities, you can also read How to Build Independence Skills in Preschoolers and Building Responsibility.

Continue Your New School Routine

A new school routine does not need to be perfect to be helpful. With practice and patience, children can gradually become more comfortable knowing what comes next and taking a bigger role in managing their own day.

The beginning of a school year can bring plenty of changes. Keeping routines simple, flexible, and predictable can help children start the year feeling more prepared and confident.

34 0